- I was expecting this huge division between people and that there would be people I'd never even see as they were off at uber-secret parties that required code words and psychic super powers to know about.
- I was expecting snotty attitudes and people to look down their noses at me.
- I was expecting people in fancy fancy clothes and being all fru-fru and elitist.
- I was expecting total naked spanking debauchery.
What I actually found:
- Really nice, friendly, and welcoming people.
- No pressure to do anything I didn't want to do.
- No elitist or snobby attitudes.
- More people knew of me than I'd have ever believed possible
- Everyone mingling with everyone else -- I did not notice anyone who thought they were better than anyone else.
- People actually wanting to spank me.
- People almost always had long conversations before even broaching the topic of spanking. I enjoy feeling like a person first and so I really appreciated this. First and foremost it's nice to make friends.
- Nice normal people getting spanked or doing the spanking. It wasn't some sort of naked free-for- all-spank-orgy.
I had a great time and I'm glad I went.
The aftermath:
2 comments:
Hey girl -- can I have a copy of this blog? I'd love to have something like this to show people when they start their whining about how Shadow Lane is clique-ridden and elitist. Sour grapes, I say!
You put forth an effort, you networked, you showed up with a smiling face. Your good party started with you. :-)
Erica: Of course you can. I had such fun! Sure I had my meltdown moments, but that is a me thing not anything to do with Shadowlane or the people there. Overall though, I think I did great and I'd do it again!
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