Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Spanking People

With another SSC party just around the corner, I find myself thinking about the party scene.  Even though I won't be making this one, the nostalgia from past parties is in high gear.

It seems to me that the people who go to parties can be generally divided into two broad groups.  There is one group (which I think is by far the much larger group) of people who go to have fun, connect with people on a multitude of levels and for whom the spanking is just a bonus to it all.  The other group of people is much more spank-centric:  they eat, breathe, live spanking.  When they aren't spanking all they think about is what spanking they could possibly be missing out on.  They can't talk about anything else but spanking and everything they do is solely geared to get their spanking itch taken care of.

I find the second group of people tedious.  When I interact with one of them I end up feeling more like an object to satisfy a desire than a real live person with feelings, opinions and interests outside the spanking realm.  I definitely much prefer the whole package deal where spanking isn't the whole focus.  I feel that people who are like this really miss out on a lot of the fun that is to be had.  I'm sure they probably think I'm just wasting time and don't get my take on the scene at all.

I'm thankful that I have a group of friends who mostly have the same attitude toward spanking parties that I do and that we can periodically get together and have so much fun (even if a butt never got spanked).

I hope my friends have an awesome time in Savannah this coming weekend.  I wish I was going to be there with you all.  I'll be there in spirit though.

1 comments:

sarah thorne said...

Iggy, I agree with you. It's tedious to deal with people who only think and act spank spank spank and nothing else. It does make you feel objectified. Hey, yeah, they're entitled to how they view and enjoy the scene, but so many get annoyed when you don't go along with what they want despite what you want!

we'll drink diet dr. pepper in your name! We're gonna miss you terribly! :( We need to start a 'get iggy to america' fund.

sarah